Whole Hearted Devotion Pt. 3: Proof of Our Love

The is the third and final segment to the series on whole-hearted devotion from Psalm 119. We have been talking about obedience to God through His word.

If you have not read the first two, I would encourage you to go back and see how we were made to obey and putting obedience into practice. This final section really gets to the heart of the matter.

Are you aware of the best proof of our love for God? It is obedience.

Our Lord reminds us of this in John 14:15, 21, 23:

“If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.” (v. 15)

“He who has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” (v. 21)

Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him.” (v.23)

If we are confident of the love that God has for us, we would not doubt or drift in our response. After all, disobedience is at its root distrust. Either we believe God is for us and His ways are best or we don’t.

It’s a choice to believe His love and goodness. Then, we find great delight in pleasing Him. There is nothing quite like love to motivate whole-hearted obedience.

Psalm 119 shows us that obedience isn’t simply behavior modification. It’s the fruit of a heart increasingly captivated by love of God and his Word.

What’s Love Got to do with it?

We often talk about loving God. We sing about it, pray about it, and tell others that we love Him. But how does our love for God show up in our everyday lives?

Love is more than a feeling. It is demonstrated through our choices, our priorities, and our willingness to do what pleases the one we love.

Think about any relationship that matters to you. If you continually ignored the wishes of someone you claimed to love, disregarded their words, and insisted on doing things your own way, your actions would eventually call your love into question.

Our relationship with God is no different. We cannot separate our love for Him from our response to His Word.

In John 14:31, Jesus explained that He did exactly what the Father commanded Him so the world would know that He loved the Father.

Jesus demonstrated His love through His obedience. And as His followers, we demonstrate our love for Him through ours.

Jesus’ Love Was Demonstrated Through Obedience

Jesus never treated obedience to His Father as an inconvenience or a burden. His obedience flowed from His love for the Father:

  • His obedience pleased the Father. “I always do the things that are pleasing to him” (John 8:29).
  • His obedience demonstrated His love. Jesus said He did what the Father commanded so the world would know He loved Him (John 14:31).
  • His obedience was costly. Philippians 2:8 tells us that Jesus “humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death—even death on a cross.”

Jesus obeyed when it was difficult, when it required sacrifice, and when it led Him to the cross. His obedience wasn’t simply about following instructions; it revealed His wholehearted love for the Father.

What does this teach us?

We often want to measure our love for God by how strongly we feel about Him. But Jesus shows us that love is also revealed through action.

Do we obey only when God’s commands align with our preferences? Do we follow Him only when obedience is comfortable? Or are we willing to obey when it costs us something?

The question isn’t just, “Do I say I love God?” It’s, “Does the way I live demonstrate that I love Him?”

This does not mean we obey perfectly as Jesus did. We are sinners who need His grace. Jesus is our Savior and our example: through His finished work, we are forgiven, and as we follow Him, we learn to reflect His loving obedience.

If Jesus demonstrated His love through obedience, what does our obedience reveal about our love for God? Psalm 119 helps us answer that question.

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Obedience is Proof of Our Love

Psalm 119 is not simply about a man who knows God’s commands. It is about a man who loves them because he loves the God who gave them.

Notice how often the psalmist connects love, delight, and obedience.

A. We obey because we love God’s Word.

“Oh how I love your law! It is my meditation all the day.” — Psalm 119:97

“Therefore I love your commandments above gold, above fine gold.” — Psalm 119:127

The psalmist doesn’t merely tolerate God’s Word or obey reluctantly. He treasures it. He considers it more valuable than gold because he recognizes its worth.

What we love, we value. What we value, we prioritize.

Practical examples:

  • We make time to read Scripture because we want to hear from God, not merely check off a spiritual duty.
  • We return to God’s promises when we are anxious instead of allowing our worries to control us.
  • We allow Scripture to correct our thinking rather than selecting only the passages that agree with our preferences.
  • We choose God’s truth over popular opinion when the two conflict.

Our love for God’s Word should be reflected in how we treat it, how much we value it, and whether we allow it to shape our lives.

B. We obey because God’s commands are our delight.

“In the way of your testimonies I delight as much as in all riches.” — Psalm 119:14

“I will delight in your statutes; I will not forget your word.” — Psalm 119:16

The psalmist connects delight with remembering and following God’s Word. He doesn’t view obedience as merely a restriction on his freedom. He sees God’s commands as good and worthy of his devotion.

Practical examples:

  • We forgive because God commands us to forgive, even when holding a grudge feels easier (Psalm 119:30, 32).
  • We turn away from sin because we want to walk in God’s ways (Psalm 119:101).
  • We choose honesty when lying would be more convenient.
  • We pursue purity in our thoughts and actions because we want to honor God (Psalm 119:9–11).

Delight doesn’t mean every act of obedience feels pleasant. Sometimes doing what is right is painful. But even when obedience is difficult, we can delight in knowing that God’s ways are right.

C. We obey because we want to remain close to God.

“With my whole heart I seek you; let me not wander from your commandments!” — Psalm 119:10

Notice the connection: the psalmist seeks God with his whole heart and asks for help not to wander from His commands.

He doesn’t want to follow God’s rules while keeping God at a distance. He wants a relationship with God that shapes every part of his life.

Practical examples:

  • We confess sin rather than hide it or excuse it (Psalm 119:59).
  • We ask God to examine our ways and redirect our steps.
  • We seek God’s guidance before making decisions rather than asking Him to bless choices we’ve already made.
  • We repent when Scripture exposes an area where we have wandered.

Obedience is not how we earn a relationship with God. It is one of the ways our love for Him becomes visible.

1 John 2:3–5 reinforces this truth: keeping God’s commands is evidence that we know Him, and obedience demonstrates that our love for Him is being made complete.

Reflection: Does Your Obedience Prove Your Love?

Psalm 119 challenges us to examine more than our behavior. It invites us to examine our hearts.

Do we love God’s Word enough to meditate on it? Do we trust Him enough to obey when we don’t understand? Are we determined to remain faithful when obedience is costly? Do we respond when His Word exposes our sin? And are we seeking God Himself rather than merely seeking His blessings?

We will never obey perfectly in this life. That is why we need Jesus. Our hope is not in our ability to keep every command, but in Christ, who perfectly obeyed the Father, died for our sins, and rose again. We are saved by grace through faith, not by our works. And the grace that saves us also begins transforming us.

As we abide in Christ, depend on His Spirit, and grow in His Word, obedience becomes the fruit of a life increasingly shaped by love for God.

So let’s stop asking only, “Am I following the rules?”

Let’s ask a deeper question: “Does the way I live demonstrate that I love the God who has saved me?”

May we become people who do more than claim to love God. May we treasure His Word, trust His character, delight in His commands, and follow Jesus with our whole hearts.

Because love for God is more than something we profess. It is something we discipline ourselves to practice out of a grateful heart fro His love for us.


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