Every day, our children step onto a spiritual battlefield.  One of the most powerful ways to equip them is to teach them the Word of God.  Today, we’ll explore eight Bible verses to teach our boys, we’ll discuss how to model these Scriptures and pray them over our sons.

Bible Verses to Teach Our Boys

My husband and I have sons who are six and eleven, and we’ve been helping them hide Scripture in their hearts and apply it to their lives since they were toddlers.  It’s encouraging to see the fruit of these efforts.  At times, we hear them speaking Scripture when they’re afraid in the night or stressed out while laboring over math homework.

Let’s take a closer look at eight powerful Bible verses to teach our boys.

1. Proverbs 4:23: “Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life” (NASB).

Why this verse is important to teach our boys:

This verse is a reminder to our boys that our hearts—our inner life of thoughts, desires, and motives—shape everything else about us. Just as a spring supplies fresh water, our heart supplies the direction and character of our words, actions, and choices.

How to model it: 

Show them how you guard your own heart (what you read, how you pray, how you respond when stressed). Boys learn more by example than lecture.

Prayer

“Father God, thank you that every time we are tempted, you provide a way out.  Please protect my son from the many ungodly influences surrounding him, including media, unwholesome friendships, and every other form of evil.  I ask you to guide me as I help him make wise decisions and as I set boundaries for his protection.”

2. 2 Timothy 1:7: ^“For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline.”

Why this verse is important to teach our boys:

When our boys feel uncertain or anxious, this verse reminds them that God has given them the spirit of power, love, and discipline.  These words bolster their strength by showing them that they don’t need to follow their emotions; God’s Word is an anchor of truth, and it empowers them.

How to model it:

Be honest about the circumstances that make you feel anxious or timid.  Talk about the ways you turn to God for strength in these situations and tell your boys how he comes through for you.

Prayer:

“Lord God, thank you that you do not give your children fearful spirits.  Please bolster my son’s spirit of power, love, and discipline.  Help him grow into a strong leader, a man who shepherds his family, makes decisions confidently, and has a strong sense of your purpose for his life.  Help him learn what it means to be bold in love.”

3. John 1:12: “But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God.”

Why this verse is important to teach our boys:

Our boys need to know that by believing in and receiving Jesus, they are God’s children.  They have been welcomed into God’s family.  This sense of belonging is at the core of their identities in a world that threatens to erode their worth.

How to model it:

When you pray together as a family, thank God for embracing you as members of his family.  Remind your son that even when he feels like he doesn’t belong with others, he is chosen by God.

Prayer:

“Heavenly Father, thank you that those who receive Jesus as Lord and Savior inherit eternal life and are adopted into your family as your children.  I pray for my son to understand his need for a Savior and receive Jesus as Lord and Savior.  Please give him a tender heart, open and receptive to the Gospel so that he might walk with you all his life.”

4. James 1:2-4: “Consider it all joy, my brothers and sisters, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”

Why this verse is important to teach our boys:

In difficult times, it’s easy to become discouraged.  This verse reminds us that God permits troubles in our lives because difficult times produce character, endurance, and maturity.  Rather than wondering why we must face difficulties, we can teach our boys to grow through adversity.

How to model it:

Regularly talk to your boys about the challenges you face in everyday life.  Tell them what you are learning.  Model what it looks like to keep a soft and teachable heart.

Prayer:

“Dear Lord, thank you that you can take any difficult situation and use it for good.  When my son’s faith is tested, I pray that you will help him press into you rather than turning away from you.  Help me teach him to look to you as his source of comfort and strength.  Enable him to understand that difficult times can help him grow stronger and more mature.”

5. Psalm 119:103: “How sweet are Your words to my taste!  Yes, sweeter than honey to my mouth!”

Why this verse is important to teach our boys:

The world offers many false sources of satisfaction.  When we teach our boys to delight in God’s Word, savoring its truth like honey, we lead them to a source of deep spiritual satisfaction and nourishment.  As our boys learn to turn to God for comfort, fulfillment, and direction, they build their lives on a firm foundation.  

How to model it:

Read your Bible in front of your boys.  Rather than going to a quiet and isolated part of your home, intentionally read where your boys can see you.  Then, tell them what you’re reading and how God is using it to impact your life.

Prayer:

“Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for giving us your Word.  Your Word provides guidance, comfort, spiritual nourishment, and more.  Please help my son fall in love with your Word, learning to turn to it as a source of wisdom, comfort, and daily sustenance.  Help me set an example by reading and studying your Word in front of him and teaching him as you direct me.  I pray your Word will be an anchor to him throughout his entire life.”

6. Ecclesiastes 4:12: “And if one can overpower him who is alone, two can resist him. A cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart.”

Why this verse is important to teach our boys:

God designed his children to live in community with one another.  We heal together and grow together.  Our boys need to learn to resist isolation and aim to cultivate authentic relationships with other believers.  We rise above life’s battles together, not alone.

How to model it:

Make time for friendships in your own life.  Invite your friends into your home.  Encourage interactions between your friends and your boys.  Show your children the value of relationships by prioritizing time with friends who build you up.

Prayer:

“Lord, thank you for creating us to live in relationships with others.  I pray that you will provide godly friends for my son throughout each season of his life.  Unite his heart with those who know and love you, allowing them to sharpen one another as iron sharpens iron.  Help my son stay away from ungodly friendships that might pull him away from you.”

7. Matthew 5:16: “Your light must shine before people in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.”

Why this verse is important to teach our boys:

As God’s children, we are all called to let his light shine through us into the world.  It’s important to teach our boys that they set an example for others wherever they go.  They choose what kind of example they will set.  God calls them to shine his light into the lives of others through their words, attitudes, and actions. 

How to model it:

Aim to live a life of love.  Warmly greet cashiers and other community workers.  Engage in loving conversations with acquaintances when you are in your child’s school or in the community together.  Model what it looks like to carry God’s light and love wherever you go.

Prayer:

“Father God, thank you for giving us the strength we need to face the challenges you place in front of us.  You reveal your power in our weak moments, and you are trustworthy.  I pray that my son will have the strength to stand up for what is right even when it means standing alone.  Give him your courage and strength as he takes a stand for righteousness.”

8. Matthew 23:11: “But the greatest of you shall be your servant.”

Why this verse is important to teach our boys:

We live in a self-serving culture.  The world tells our boys to do whatever is necessary to be the best, even if it means hurting others.  Jesus’ teaching is countercultural: The greatest among us are those who bend the lowest in service.

How to model it:

Serve others in humble ways and invite your boys to join you.  Rake an elderly neighbor’s leaves or shovel his driveway.  Offer practical care to those who need help.  You will teach your boys to serve as you help others together.    

Prayer:

“Dear Lord, thank you for showing us how to put the needs of others in front of our own needs and modeling a life of service through Jesus’ life on earth.  I pray that my son will have a servant’s heart.  Give him a deep desire to serve others, using his gifts and talents to help other people.  Open his eyes to see that every blessing in his life is meant to be poured out for the good of others.”

We can trust that God’s Word never returns empty.  As we share the Word with our kids, we are imparting truth that will impact the rest of their lives.  We might not see the fruit of our efforts immediately, but we can trust that God will use it for good.

A Devotional Book for Boys Who Want to Grow in Courage and Strength

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About the Author: Stacey Pardoe is a writer, teacher, coach, mom, wife, and more.  She has written three devotional books for parents to read with their children, each coauthored with her own children.  Find these two mother-daughter devotional books as well as the new boys’ devotional book here.  She also blogs weekly here.